1. Intro

People are constantly asking me why I don’t date black girls, so I think it’s finally time to explain why:

2. I Date What’s In My Social Circle

If you look at the social circles I run in, and the places I go to, there are no available black women. I might see one every month or two, but 9 times out of 10, she has a white boyfriend. Why? For the same reason you’re probably going to see me with a white girlfriend 9 times out of 10. We date what’s available to us. Now I know what some of you are thinking: “So run in a black social circle every now and then.”. I don’t know about other cities, but at least in Columbus, there aren’t that many black social circles that aren’t into the whole “I wanna be a thug“ scene, and if there are, they are just too churchy for me. I don’t fuck with religion. Period. And I’m not about to change my interests and beliefs for a girl.

3. There Aren’t Enough To Go Around

There are roughly 20 black males on my step-father’s and father’s side of the family, and I believe that ALL of them have been incarcerated, shot, or murdered at some point in time and either dropped out of, or did shitty in school. Ironically? None of the black women on those sides of the family are educated or don’t have a business of any kind. Everyone of them started out in the projects/government housing Now let’s look at my mother and her four sisters. My mother owns her own business and works for no one; the same goes for one of her sisters. The other sister was the CEO of the Ohio EPA and now has a PhD. from Ohio State and administers some college. The last sister? Has a medical degree from Yale and a PhD. from Harvard. None of the males on this side have ever been incarcerated (I‘m the oldest) and does really well in school. What does this tell you? The education and business savvy of the mother makes a BIG difference in how your child will turn out. In other words, I absolutely will not fuck with a woman that has no kind of higher education or business savvy. Yes, I started in the projects/government housing and got into trouble, but I always sought to minimize it due to the influence of having women around to show me that there was a way out. I rarely, if ever, run into educated black women that I feel could take care of a kid and lead them in the right direction should we have children together and I die for whatever reason. I simply will not fuck with hood girls, no matter what race she is.

4. Black Women Have Temper Problems

I’ve spent my whole life trying to remove myself from violent situations, and I just want to chill. I’m tired of fighting, I’m tired of getting shot at, and I’m tired of people who try to instigate fights and purposely try to push your buttons until you snap at them. This is what 99% of black women do. They fuck with you just to fuck with you. They don’t believe in talking to you. It goes from “I have a problem” to yelling, to putting their hands on you, and I don’t let anyone put their hands on me. I'm already sensitive about letting anyone touch me, let alone physically attack me. Some of you remember my last interaction with a black girl. Remember the one from one of my jobs? I walked away from her. What did she do? Follow me and started getting ignorant and threatening me, thus forcing me to snap at her (I don‘t take threats very well). I’m just not trying to deal with that side of me anymore, so women who can’t control their tempers are just out of the question.

5. Most Black Women Have Kids

I don’t know a single young black girl that doesn’t have a kid, and I really don’t have the time for that at this point in my life. My child is dying, and I’m not about to spend my time being the father of someone elses kid. To me, it wouldn’t be right to do so. Young kids just need too much attention, attention that‘s reserved for my own child. I’m not saying that I couldn’t be a step-father at some point in my life, but now just isn’t the time. I just have too much on my plate to deal with as it is.

6. Final Words

Other than the above, I have no problem dating black women, but it’s easier said than done.